The sage perspective says that every outcome or circumstance
can be turned into a gift and opportunity.
The Story Of My Life!
A long time ago, a year after getting married with a toddler and a new-born baby, my life took a turn for the worst. Everything that could go wrong went wrong, and our value systems were severely tested.
From loss of income – resulting on accumulating debts. I didn’t earn much, and we were on the verge of losing the house which was in my name. As time went by, I started subsiding my income by selling clothes, with the support from others I maintained the status quo. In this period our house was destroyed by fire, and we found ourselves living with neighbours while the house was being reconstrued. The most important division I took was upgrading my studies towards a degree, and once I qualified, I changed jobs which improved my life, and then filed for divorce. This is happening over a 7 year -period of wilderness!
Back to the sage perspective, that says every circumstance can be into a gift or opportunity.
- Was this bad or good? According to PQ whichever perspective you believe becomes true.
From the Saboteur perspective, particularly the judge; this was very bad for me, others and for my family and our belief system.
From a Sage perspective, what was the gift? The sage carries three gifts. These are knowledge , power, and inspiration. At the time it didn’t feel as much. What knowledge would I need to gain so that the payoff in the future could be much larger than what this is costing me now?
Which mental muscle power must grow for me to handle this?
Commitment to an inspiring action that you wouldn’t have if this “bad” thing hadn’t happened.